Paul has never been one for big romantic gestures. I’m not saying he isn’t romantic in his own way, but he just isn’t that guy that’s going to plan a big elaborate surprise or shower me with gifts just because… at least not very often.
Lately though, I’m noticing these very little seemingly insignificant things that Paul does on a regular basis to show me he loves me. If you’re not looking or paying attention, you would miss them. They are the little acts of love that often fly under the radar and go unappreciated. I’m not sure if I’m paying more attention, or the longer we are together the better we are getting to know each other. These are the little things I never want to forget, and when I’m paying attention they have me swooning for my husband all over again.
Love doesn’t have to be full of big romantic gestures all the time. Sometimes I think love is more beautiful in those brief little moments, where the love is unspoken. Those regular days, where actions speak louder than words. When he knows a hug and pep talk is just what I needed. When hanging a nursery decoration takes priority to the interview he was waiting to see with Jameis Winston to help ease your wife’s anxiety. When you send your wife in the house to protect her from seeing the snake in the backyard. Some of these things may not even sound like your stereotypical descriptions of “love”, and maybe that’s why they often go overlooked and under appreciated.
I encourage everyone to look for the simple moments of love in their marriage, because those little moments are the ones that fill my heart with joy, remind me how lucky I am to have my husband, and make me feel more loved and cherished. Value the little things in love.